{"id":1697,"date":"2019-10-15T23:59:33","date_gmt":"2019-10-15T23:59:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fighting-to-understand.us\/\/old\/?page_id=1697"},"modified":"2023-04-14T10:05:45","modified_gmt":"2023-04-14T10:05:45","slug":"commit-to-just-7-guidelines","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/fighting-to-understand.us\/\/old\/commit-to-just-7-guidelines\/","title":{"rendered":"Commit To Just 7 Guidelines"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Action Step: Consider a Few Ground Rules for Our Road Trip<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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(I want to make it safe for myself and others to be heard)<\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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A Serious Question...<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Can we trust each other?<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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It\u2019s a valid question! We The People, version 4.0, is only possible if we build trust. To grow trust, starts with a commitment.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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The simple act of talking about ground rules helps us to build strong trust with one another.\u00a0 These 3 ground rules have emerged as a starting place to talk. From this foundation W<\/b>E <\/b>can build\u00a0 both brave and safe exploratory discussions – as we Fight To Understand more and more difficult issues.\u00a0 Thus, the ground rules are forever under construction.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Consider a Few Ground Rules<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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  1. 1. Desire to understand and support your community.<\/li>\n \t
  2. 2. Desire to understand and love your neighbor.<\/li>\n \t
  3. 3. Bring your whole self, including your passions (without being offensive).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\nIt is absolutely NOT IMPORTANT that you commit to being perfect about the ground rules. It is also not important to sign a form. It IS IMPORTANT that you have an inner desire to learn how to Fight-To-Understand them as a goal.\n\nThese first 3-groundrules set the foundation at Dinner and a Fight events for exploring (dialogue) about complex American topics. To move beyond dialogue to deliberation(deciding), please consider adding three more ground rules:\n
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    3. 6. Be willing to learn from other\u2019s different viewpoints.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\nWe\u2019ve found these ground rules to be easy, safe and productive.<\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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      Send us a comment about the Ground Rules<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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